In case you don’t know, married people don’t have sex everyday. Sometimes sex in marriages is preformed as a duty to your spouse. Stop killing yourself about this sex issue. There is more to a relationship than sex.
Yes sex is sweet but know that sex outside marriage takes a lot from you than you know. Don’t sacrifice your future on the alter of temporal pleasure. A relationship built on sex is a disaster waiting to happen.

Let’s face it, premarital sex has been considered a taboo in our society, not just for the shame involved around it but also because there are so many benefits of abstaining from sex before marriage. Just because a lot of people indulge in it doesn’t make it right.
Your primary activity while dating or in courtship should be talking. Talk about anything and everything, gossip, look for things of interest to talk about. Talk about your pasts and most importantly about your future together. Premarital sex kills communication in a relationship.

Friendship is the solid foundation for any relationship to grow. When you start having sex, the relationship becomes more physical than mental. You will lose a serious amount of growth when you start having sex before marriage.
Yes, sex is a great way to show affection but it sure is not the only way. Explore other ways of making your partner feel special. When you start using sex to show affection it will be very difficult to explore other amazing options. Not all relationship will eventually lead to marriage. Breakups are more difficult and painful when the couple have been involved sexually. I guess that explains why some people are still hating on their Ex.

Trust is a key ingredient for happiness in marriage. Nothing kills trust in a relationship like premarital sex. The best way to have trust in your marriage is to stay sexually pure before you marry.
Sex is not just a physical act, it is a sacred and spiritual act as well. Spiritual transactions occur when two people have sex. Save it for that special someone.
Avoid putting yourselves in compromising situation if you really want to stay sexually pure before marriage. You’re always alone together in the house and in your room abi?
“Body no be firewood”
What you feed your mind on controls your life. You can’t be addicted to pornography and yet be expecting to stay sexually pure. Kill that habit before it kills you.
Don’t start when you cannot finish.

Something dies inside of you whenever you commit or sponsor an abortion. The guilt alone is too much a burden to bear. If you can’t control your sexual urge it will be difficult to exercise control over other vital areas of your life. Practicing abstinence allows you to develop more patience and self control.
You should note that sex can never prove love one has for you. It’s never too late to make a U turn if you’re already sexually involved with your partner, though it will be quite difficult than it would have been if it never happened in the first place. If you valve your future happiness, you’ll build your marriage on a solid foundation.

My dear ladies! I encourage you not to be so easily flattered by what a man has. Be flattered by his strength, courage, integrity and character as a man. Be impressed by his ability to be honest, faithful, loving and respectful to you. Be impressed because he can communicate and openly express his feelings. Be impressed because he’s got confidence, direction and purpose in his life. Be impressed because he’s quality man not a fine man. Don’t let your love base on material things because everything comes and go.
Make sure you don’t choose your spouse on his sex drive.

I’m Henry Jack (HJ), and this how I rest my case on sex life.

Signed: Henry Da Darling Jack